You get blown out when you are trying something you know will provoke strong reactions. It’s not that hard to avoid blowouts completely, but it takes a different approach. You have to focus on being friendly and warm instead of cocky and cool.
You get blown out when you are trying something you know will provoke strong reactions. It’s not that hard to avoid blowouts completely, but it takes a different approach. You have to focus on being friendly and warm instead of cocky and cool.
I’d love to learn how to approach without ever getting blown out. I don’t mean getting rejected, rejection is easy to take it is when you approach and get a mean angry reaction from your target that is bad.
If you’re getting blown out consistently then you are definitely doing something wrong, perhaps coming off as too cocky and not enough funny. Usually if you just approach with a smile, that’s enough to keep them from blowing you out. I think Sean says it best in his comment above.
Do these guys ever get blown out? Getting blown out is the most irritating and depressing part of pick up. It happened to me today I tried to talk to a woman and she went mad and stormed off in a temper.
You make a good point. There are probably tons of other amazing pick up artists who we never even hear about simply because they are not part of a pick up company and are not marketing themselves. Although, one would argue that if someone is able to make a living on pick up then he must be pretty damn good!